Tuesday, August 14, 2007

You Tell Me........

Ok this is why I don't date. Here is the scenario..............

Met this guy at a pool party this weekend. He instantly says "you look familiar, have you been on the news...?" So of course I laugh it off and DENY, DENY, DENY because this party was in my subdivision as in where I live etc. Not that I care but it just wasn't the place. Plus since he didn't come right out an admit to where it was I don't know what he is talking about. But I found him to be cute and very amusing. So as the day goes on we talk and found that we have some common interests and philosophies and we decide to exchange #s. Fine. We chit chat on the phone a few times. Still fine. I take it upon myself to suggest that we go out sometime. I suggest tonight. Now we all have already discussed here that I can not go to work all day and have a life. I come home and I am too tired to do anything. Then add the fact that I just bought a 7 week old pitbull puppy along with my other dog and those 2 kids take up more time. So I suggest the movies because I figure I can catch a nap then go out. Here is the killer.........

This gentleman tells me NO! He doesn't like to go to the movies and he has not been in 2 years. First off who doesn't like the movies??? Why not? Something about his knees hurting and he cant move around....? What the F**K??? Do you have ADD or something where you can't sit still for 1.5-2hrs?? But the issue for me is its the 1st date. Whether you liked the movies or not, me being the woman and suggesting the event, and you wanting to get to know me should have kept your mouth shut and went along with it. Anyone else would have and later if the relationship progressed would have let me know they didn't care for the movies. So I feel like he is rude and SELFISH and totally unaccommodating. I guess he must have thought about it and noticed how my mood and phone demeanor changed so then he texts that he will go to the movies..he must really like me to do that. What????? I don't even want to go with him now. NEXT!!

His alternative.........A restaurant that has Happy Hour on Tues night with Jazz? I don't know I think the fact that he told me know on a 1st date irks me. Plus anyone who doesn't like the movies is weird. Then add that I suspect you want to go to what is essentially a bar either to prove or disprove my identity or maybe he thinks I am just that easy that after a few drinks XXX will come out. Well it doesn't work like that in the real world. Why do I even bother with these dudes?

The other ones I have run into this week have all tried to strong arm me into a date. With a total disregard for my schedule. Is this what the real world is because this shit sucks!!!!

By the way mark my words plea deal is coming Mike has no choice.


In response to the IDIOT who asked if I am happy. Give me a break you act like you feel sorry for the Vicks. Sorry for what? They had ever opportunity in the world to make it and they both still fucked it up. So this has nothing to do with dogs over people it has to do with stupidity over common sense. It does not give me joy to see anyone go to jial. I am merely saying that he and his whole family need to look at how they have 2 star athletes sitting on the sofa when they should've been a football dynasty.