In Response

I have learned over the years not to even attempt NOT telling guys what I do. Because one relationship I was not upfront and it drove the guy crazy literally in the end, restraining orders etc because initially I had a regular job. I lied to him etc and it really turned out bad. Like scary bad! So that is not even an option. The only question is how deep my interest is in them as far as how long I take to tell them. In this instance I met this guy at a strip club. Its not really an NFL/team issue because in Atlanta the strip club is a way of life. On any given night you could hold a press conference so there is no major concern on backlash from the NFL. I have openly dated a few athletes some high profile some not but I have never been too invested in the relationships since they were athletes so I guess stereo-typing given a person's career can go both ways. Plus Minnesota is a far cry from Atlanta or New York you know what I mean:) What's that basball player that married the stripper from the Gold-Club in Atlanta? I think he used to play for the Mets.

As for dating porn guys....HELL NO!!!!!!! They do not operate like porn girls. Its almost like they have to over compensate their ability to 'get' women since they have sex 4-5 times a week with the most gorgeous women but those girls are being paid. So they do double the normal player stuff off camera to boost their ego. Now that should be a Dr. Phil episode. Ask any porn actress those porn guys are relentless in the pursuit of 'non-paid' pussy (Ha Ha):)!!!!

If any relationship I was in was up for decision making on a serious exclusive long-term situation regardless of who they are I would eventually have to get a job or a career in some other aspect besides being in front of the camera and I don't have a problem there but if that person wants to be with me they are going to have to either help me transition or give me the patience while I make moves in that direction. Trust me I don't want any let down either and that is NOT why I am looking to stop doing videos. I personally would like a little more normalcy in day to day life.