Monday, October 16, 2006

FootBall and Group Sex!

Hello Hello!!!!!

Sorry I haven't been updating I have been in grind mode!!!

Let's see, hmm.....Well I was not torn with my pic on Sun. Yeah Giants!!!!! Sorry Falcons but their offense red-zone issues have still not been addressed. Then apparently as long as the other team's defense is not slow, fat and sloppy you can sack Vick repeatedly! I don't think he has ever been sacked that many times in 1 game!!! Not to mention the butter finger receivers Whote and Jenkins were dropping passes as usual. They need to cut Roddy White right now! Has he aver caught a pass???????

Dolphin fans I love them just as much as you do but I told you all CULPEPPER SUCKS!!!!!!! Sabin needs a swift kick in the ass for not taking Drew Breeze. I see the Saints didn't mind a shoulder injury. Shoulder looks fine to me!

Denver is no joke! And D.Will you looked good too bad you're a bit immature for me:)

Jacksonville has been steadily getting their offense together but their D-fence has been on point.

Baltimore has surprised the hell out of me!!!!

The Raiders will lose every game as long as the other team shows up!!!(HAHAHA)


Let's see. I have actually been sending out my resume. I am looking into pharmaceutical or medical equipment sales. The phone has not rung yet. Could it be the 6 year gap in employment(HAHA). I am about to hire a personal coach. But biz has been so good lately and no issues I am torn. Either way its not going to be a quick transition. 6-9mo. for everything and complete retirement I think.

Relationship-wise I am glad I have several but at the moment they all get on my nerves!!!! Here's a scenario for you and tell me what you think.............


My guy friend, my girlfriend (if you get us drunk enough we may have sex but sober we are not that into each other sexually), and his life long friend all went out to strip club. My girlfriend is quite wild and with a few drinks in her she began to dance with the strippers, fondle, lick etc. His friend and my friend instantly fell in love and proceeded to dare ono another to whip out body parts in the club!!!! The alcohol continued to pour etc etc.

Fast forward to the end of the night. I knew where I was going after the club....with my friend. I also knew my girl was going with his friend. Now my friend had expressed he wanted to sleep with my friend and I already could see at least a 3-some developing. The only ???? is Red-Light/Green Light on your boy! I didn't even like his friend. Physically he is not my M.O. and the thought of it all..uh......!!!

As we arrive at his house my friend (being herself) instantly begins to strip and dance in the kitchen on the counter tops with his friend. I am sitting eating my Waffle House meal and my friend is looking at me like 'what are you doing?' After awhile she and I fool around a bit and we all proceed upstairs. There was no question in my mind he wanted to get a few pumps in on my friend and he did. No issue on my part. But now your boy is left alone and naked and horny, and since you stole his chic he assumes its ok to jump on me. I immediately stop him and say to my friend "Red light/Green Light" !!!!

That is my universal code for is this dude o.k. , because if not I can shut him down. I am tired, I am sick, I am a lesbian....Whatever! He said Green light and although I could have done without his light-skinned friend (I detest light skinned guys and everyone knows it, not white or other races, but light-skinned black guys will never be in for me!!!) I was obligated since my guy stole his chic! After a few minutes my guy decides he wants me back ad we leave toe 2 freak of the weeks alone and go off together for the rest of the night. Now I made a point t address this because it was very apparent to me knowing him that the whole orgy thing was a 1st for him and I didn't want it to be an issue. He said how much fun he had, we made plans for later that month etc etc. All was fine but I just had a feeling there may be an issue later. We just had a 3-some with wifey for the 1st time a few months prior but this was something else.


Anyway to make a long story short, my friend and his friend are now the happy couple. His friend says to my friend 'Yeah my boy and I had to make sure we were still cool'. So she is like cool about what? He responds about what went down. So my friend laughs as to us that wasn't really anything full blown. But the fact that he brought it up almost a month later made me a bit nervous. It may not have been an issue for that one but my guy has been quite elusive since then. Then I became mad. If you had an issue with it, it wasn't me who was over there fking my girl and I made it a point to ask and now 'remorse'! I am furious!!!!!!! I have been in group situations where the 'Red light' was given and all possible predators were shut down:). My question I guess is would a situation like that bother you as a man. And if so why not kill the whole thing before it started. Why am I now penalized after so much 'fun' was had on his part????? At best his friend since the 3rd grade may have gotten in 3-4 pumps. It was nothing!!! (oh protection was used by all):)!!!!!! Then a part of me is like screw you, because if you can't handle that B.S. what happens when a friend says"Hey I think I saw your girl on the Spice Channel with a dick in her ass and one in her nose"! What then?

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

First question I would like to ask, if you and this guys has something special going why allow him to have sex with your girlfriend. You open yourself up to the situation so whatever comes from it you must accept and no matter how many pumps his friend got with you, the fact remains he did get some pumps. At the moment it was cool because he was getting what he wanted also, but as he thinks about it like all men he starts to question it or maybe he was just using you to get what he wanted and now that he got it he's playing hide and seek with you. Second, question. Is you involvement with this guy something serious are is he just a for the moment thing? Because if the two of you are serious why compromise the relationship. By the way what do you have against light skinned brothers, are you saying that a light skinned brothers can't satisfy you. I'm sure at some point some light skinned brother have made you climax(Hmmm). Your predictions for the NFL are confusing lets get the record straight who is your team. Choose one please (lol) Getting back to your male friend where do you find these guys, you gave him his fantasy and now he's tripping, but I do understand why he may be tripping, because it is hard to be with a woman that your best friend got some too, but he should have thought of that before he participated. By the way after my girl was with you, sex for me has been unbelieveable, dang girl you have skills, thanks for the lesson you taught both of us. Next time you visit our city we have to do the couple thing. I love your blogs especially when you tell stories from your private life ... keep them coming ... Bye

Anonymous said...

3-4 pumps, I've been known to have a orgasm in that amount of time. I say forget him and join your friend and her guy and let him get a few more pumps, since he seems to be cool with the whole situation and doesn't seem to be bothered with the fact that your guy friend screwed his girl. Whateva happened to it ain't no fun if your homeys can't have none. Have you ever been with a fat man before, Ayana? Have you ever been satisfied by a fat man either through intercourse or orally. Would you ever be in a relationship with a fat man? Or does the thought of that disguse you? Dante Culpepper is going to be the savior of the Miami Dolphins just give him time to completely heal and a trade for Randy Moss (LOL) Tell that fool friend of yours he's luck enough to get what men across America and maybe the world dreams of, I say get rid of him. Can we hear more about some of your sexual escapades, I hate to admit it but it's kind of a turn on.

Anonymous said...

I think you should just tell him to to tell you what he is thinking. If he keeps acting stupid than just dump him.

Brayja said...

Ayana, Ayana, oh man, some guys just don't appreciate what they have. I wish my girl would let me get a few pumps on any of her three best friends, better yet I wish you were one of her best friend... (LOL) Girl don't sweat this situation because being a man I can tell you that when he's ready for more, he will reappear. How you handle it when he reappear, will determine the way things go between the two of you from that point. Please let me know if I'm right about this. On other notes I hope you are ready to cry after the Cowboys demolish your Giants. Is this guy your talking about the Giant Player? Anyway his lost, maybe you will take a chance with a light skinned brotha one day and that might be just the thing you need to resolve your relationship anxieties. Anywho, why do light skinned brothas detest you? Stay sweet, Ayana!

Brayja said...

Sorry, the question should have been, why do you detest light skinned brothas? It's impossible to believe that any man can detest you. (Smile) Oh! Just to remind you GO COWBOYS .... Sorry, couldn't help it. Is it wrong for a married man to visit your web-site and blog with you? What's your opinion?

Anonymous said...

Maybe it's you Ayana, maybe you're just a bad seed in relationships (LOL) just kidding. I think yo guy friend has the problem. You just helped in his mission to get with your friend. He gave you the green light, so, you should have no guilt for letting his friends get some pumps. Have you comfronted him about the situation yet, if so how did he respond. Let the jerk be it seems like he can't handle such situations. I thought you were waiting in line to get your angel wings ( naughty naughty ) just teasing, again. Do you have better luck with women you are involved with. Suggestion, maybe you should try dating a loser who worship the ground you walk on, therefore, he will accept everything about you, because he real wants to be with you, just a suggestion (lol)