FOR ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY......:)LOL!
Ok now before I begin let me state for the record I AM NOT REFERRING TO ME IN THIS. I will say it again because I know someone out there will say its me. I AM NOT REFERRING TO ME IN THIS.......
Ok I have a celebrity friend that is known to be how shall I say very friendly with 'shoe models' and porn stars. I actually have a big crush on said celebrity but not enough to put up with all the drama and BS that would come with being in a full blown relationship with this person. So instead when I feel like being bothered and he feels like being bothered we may hook up. Now lately I have been ultra busy time wise because now I am a regular working girl and my energy level is not there to go to work all day and then hang out all night. Nor can I just pick up and go out of town like I used to be able to. So as a result (would've happened anyway) said celebrity has taken up with a local 'shoe model'. Said 'shoe model' now claims she is pregnant. Now when I heard of this through a credible 3rd party I jokingly let him know the rumor (without naming names) and he laughed it off. But 2 days later my informant asked if I had spoken to said celebrity because they had started world war 3 with the 'shoe model'. Now my question is this. As a man in a high profile position with a known celebrity girlfriend, what would your advice be for the 'shoe model' who is definitely pregnant and from how things transpired I would say is more likely than not to be pregnant from said celebrity.
Personally I know this gentleman and he can turn dark quickly especially when challenged or backed into a corner. My advice, go to the clinic and get it taken care of. Because there is no real relationship there and said celebrity has enough $$$ that even if she were to file for paternity he is capable of delaying until that child would be in high school before a ruling would be made. Then being a 'shoe model' how will she be able to support herself????
What do you gentlemen think?
And for the record that is not what I do I don't get pregnant for two reasons. 1. I am not letting anyone raw-dog me, and 2. Birthcontrol works when used!LOL:) And to answer Chante's comment I meant in personal life I am not in the habit of letting people do that and on film I can only think of 1 maybe 2 cream pie videos. Not to mention I havent done a video in over a year so I'll say it again I am not letting anyone raw-dog me. That was and is an honest statement.
And to 'Anonymous' I never said I hooked up without finance. I rarely do that. If there is no $$ involved its a relationship and most dont want to go there because the fall out is far worse than any regular chic I am liable to get revenge with guns blazin. So never assume. Said celebrity prefers to pay because it keeps the lines visible in most cases I assure you!LOL!
In response again no apparently you don't know me too well. In regular reltionships I put up with nothing that early on because if they do BS in the 1st 60-90 days its not going to be any better later on in the relationship. That is when they are on their best behavior and if you see something you don't like then no need to drag it out. I am notorious for cutting people off for minor to major infractions during said probationary periods. I just don't tolerate much when it comes to relationships because I dont feel like I have to just so I can say I'm in a relationship. If you read through all the posts this is not the 1st one to get cut off for what you may think is silly. The point is there are too many people in this world to tolerate nonsense. It wasn't the point if he was fucking someone it was the issue of total lack of respect for my time and consideration.
You would be the 1st man on the planet to not get upset if you're girl was cheating because you were. You know it doesn't go like that. It doesn't even go like that for me. I don't care what I do, you can not do the same to me and think its ok or we should be even. We would just be over. That is just the way it is.
Yes celebrity and his girlfriend have been together for some time now (years) and I know for a fact that he has sex-capades as often as possible for whatever reason but he's a celebrity. There is a price you have to be willing to pay in order to call yourself their girlfriend etc and some women are willing to do that. I just don't haeppen to be one:)LOL!
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Hmmm! Is that what you usually do when you get pregnant, go to the clinic and get rid of it. SMH, Is the guy Eddie Murphy?
If u don't think he's gonna be a good father you know what to do
I think that would be the right thing to do. It is not fair to a child if the parents can't support them the way they should be. We already have too many children in this world that are neglected.
This sounds like a book or TV show.Do i feel a writing career coming.Being real,She needs to realize this person is not somebody for a relationship and that she needs to move on.If she wants the child and can handle being a single mother until one day she finds someone go for it.Many women have done a great job of raising children by themselves.It may be difficult but she can do it.If she doesn't have the mental,physical or finanical support to raise the child then "taking care of it might be best."Society makes it seem as if not having 2 parents leads to an adult becoming screwed up when 2 parents can screw children up just as much.She should follow her heart and mind and not rush to judgement.
Hello Ayana, and how are you doing? It's Tim from Columbus, wow, I didn't realize you have been writing so much otherwise I would have checked your blog more often.
OK, concerning the shoe model situation, I kinda of have mixed feelings on it. If it where me, I would get the abortion for sure. But if I was some shoe model and thinking there may be some dollars in it for me, I might keep the baby to get some money.
I think your celebrity friend should have fun and in the future prevent this type of situation from occuring.
O, I want to enter your contest, timfromcolumbus@yahoo.com-that is my e-mail address. But, I don't think I'm what your looking for from a financial stand-point. I want to be your friend and I guarantee I could always make you smile once you get to know me.
Sorry to here that your job isn't going to great-hopefully things will get better.
As always, Love ya
Tim from Columbus
If this famous actor is your baby daddy, and he doesn't want to own responsibility for the daddy do you force him with financial action or do you let him off the hook and raise the child to the best of your ability?
Yes, she need to move on and accept it will make a relationship!
Ok, if I were a female shoe model in her situation I would do the following:
1. Play with by breats for about an hour.
2. Ask myself if I really wanted a child. If I did, I'd go for it. I'm no Judge Wapner, but my guess if a paternity test came out positive, I would be able to get support for the child soon enough regardless of how much cheddar said celebrity would throw at fancy-schmancy lawyers. And if if the child was shaving by the time the checks started rolling in, I'd just do what I could to make ends meat and collect along the way. It's my make believe womb we're talking about here, I can do what I want!
If I didn't want a child, then it's off to the clinic. Which I'm sure is probably one of the worst experiences ever, but bringing a child into this kind of situation is going to be a tough one. Albeit doable, but not conventional by any means. So I'd better be sure I was ready to love that child like he/she deserves and there was no doubt in my mind I was ready to be a mother.
Either way it's not an enviable situation. A friend of mine is about to pop with a NBA guy's unplanned child. He has been a complete asshole about the whole situation. And if said celeb is acting the same, I'm sure it will be tough for the shoe model not to go through with it. The lure of paper stacks is way too big, and frankly, to be screwed over so badly by someone, it's hard not to just have the baby out of spite as to not give the guy exactly what he wants. Definitely not the best motivation for having a shorty, but a reality.
So when it comes down to it, if I were the sperminated shoe model, I would just think long and hard about my happiness starting my own little family and let my heart decide. And I'd probably play with my breasts again.
Well we know for sure she will not do the "logical" thing because if she was logical there'd be no pregnancy. If birthcontrol failed at the rate that black people claimed it does, there'd be no more pharmaceutical companies in business because they'd be shoveling out money to settle unwanted pregnancy lawsuits. Oh well, yet another statistic.
i may sound dumb but im lost....what the hell is a show model?
Hello, sexy lady!!!
This definitely sounds like quite a mess indeed, but it was preventable. Where was the birth control, duh!?!! Personally, I am tired of adults not taking responsibility and preventing unwanted pregnancies.
no one raw dogs you??? come the hell on! let's be real. now i love you like the rest do, but in your "former profession that was a staple. please, if you're gonna write a blog, at least keep it honest
peace and sisterly love,
chante "from the bricks"
First off ol girl should know better and if she is pregnant, him and her need to talk and in the end she has to make a decision but she need to start having better judgement and he does to....
Just a question??? U were bitching about the "24yr old" at the club fucking someone else, yet U admitted 2 "hooking up" with "said celebrity". The U said he has a "celebrity girlfriend" and was fucking the "shoe maodel".
So why bitch about money at the club fucking some one, when ur "hooking up" (ur words), with someone who alredy has someone.
Come on ma-ma, respect the game. Don't wanna judge U... but it sounds like ur not walking a straight line.
Sorry hon... the "walk a straight line" came from a "Future Star".
I just wanna get ur take on it.
First I would like to say to you Ayana, don't let the haters get to you. Your opinions and life decisions matter despite what you've done for an occupation or in your personal life. Second, to the men out there interested in Ayana services, let me put it this way, She's worth every penny and you can quote me on that. One day she will make some lucky man very very happy by being his wife, too bad she would never give me a chance, but I'll be okay as long as I can continue to pay. Continue to be you Ayana, change only for yourself. See you soon, HOPEFULLY
I see what ur saying ma-ma, but I was thinkimg like....
U fell out with the 24yr old cuz U "knew" he was fucking someone else. Yeah U said he was bullshitting, but U don't end something cuz they don't show up, or didn't call or what ever. U were saying U even cooked, and did things U don't normally do tryna build something. So 2 end that just cuz he acted stupid well... I don't think so(maybe I'm wrong, I don't know U like that).
If he didn't call or come or whatever and U "knew" he wasn't fucking someone else I don't think U'd have ended it(though I could be wrong, like I said I don't know U like that). U'd be pissed, but 2 end it?!? I've bullshitted with girls so I can kind of gauge these things. (Not always them, but I know I'm a work in progress).
Now if money(24 yr old) was fucking that girl 4 $$$, or she was fucking him for $$$ would it make a difference 2 U???
I mean, U said celeberity has a celebrity girlfriend (don't know if they were 2gether when y'all were getting down)- which would severely flaw my theory/arguement.
But she would be in the same position with said celebrity, that U were in with the 24 yr old. Again my point is "flawed" cuz U never said/did anything 2 the woman the 24yr old messed with(2 my knowledge anyway), so celeb's wiz should take it up with her man, like U.
But U were visibly upset/bothered by the 24yr old's actions, (U don't write a blog about it, which expressed clear emotions about the situation if ur not). So what about said celebrity's wiz???
"24yr old & old girl" were doing what "U and said celebrity" were doing(maybe not 4 $$$), now ur just in "celeb's wiz'" position.
I mean I can't fuck U(knowing U gotta man), and then when/if my girl messes with someone else I go postal.
I just gotta chalk it up 2 the game!!! Celeb's wiz probably had 2 eat it.
Ur thoughts hon...
I was about 2 head into the shower(got 2 run) but....
1st off I said I don't know U 2 well, so I can't not make accurate statements regarding ur character one way or another. Plus I don't know the situation of and 24 yr old.
I agree with not putting up anything(I'm notoriously impatient) and don't care 2. But I have bad qualities per say(but I'll let it be known). If I say I'll call 2morrow, that could 3-4 days 4 me. I know it's bad, but it's me. I'll even tell myself I gotta call (fill in the blank).... and just don't. That's why I rather a female have my # and her call. It's nothing personal, not intended 2 be disrespectful(I do call) just not always when I say I will. Like 7PM will be midnight. I did say I'm a work in progress.
And it's not about getting even, it's about honour(not saying U don't have any). It's like don't hit someone and cry when U get hit.
4 instance if I'm ur man, I can't be out fucking someone else, then turn around and get mad if U go out and mess with a dude. Yeah ur 100% right it doesn't cancel out, but if I don't want U messing with another dude, my dick shouldn't be in another bitch(unles U OK a 3some).
Thre's a girl who I love 2 pieces. If God allowed me 2 pick a sibling at birth it would be her. One of her best qualities she CAN'T lie 2 me(even if she wanted). So I don't lie 2 her...EVER. But I can't lie 2 her, and get upset if she does it 2 me. I crossed that line, broke the bond, was disloyal 2 her.
Ur last paragraph was true, not much 2 say. Don't think all celebs are like that, but probably a lot.
Oh hon, the girl who I love, the 1st day I met her, I wanted 2 snap her neck!!! Doubt she was that fond of me either(though she won't admit it)....
... we worked out alright thoogh. So 60-90 days is possibele. Rare.. but possible.
Are you looking for a normal man or do you want a man just like you?(Not saying that your not normal, just a little different) Just my opinion but it seems that the only man you will ever have a long term relationship with is a man who is exactly like you or a man who is so sprung and fascinated by your celeb that he allow you to completely dominate and control his life. I once dated a girl that was somewhat like you, she was bi-sexual and felt that it was okay for her to sleep with women while in a relationship with me. She even had the nerve to tell me I shouldn't take that as cheating and that it would be alright for me to be with a man, as long as I wasn't sticking my penis into another woman. I told the bitch( yes, bitch) she was losing her freaking mind, because first I don't have a want or need to be with a man and second if she could be with a woman, why couldn't I be with another woman, same shit different twist. Needless to say the relationship ended because I choose to have sex with the woman she was having sex with also ( I just wanted to know what was so good about this woman sex ) anywho, she was completely outraged because I did so, and she couldn't understand why I had the need to have sex with this woman. I best explained it to her as this, if she didn't bring this women into the relationship, I wouldn't have been curious to find out what was so special. And as most women she couldn't understand my reasoning. Face it Ayana, we are men we have no standards, but we want our women to have and makeup for the standards we are lacking. Face it, the guys you meet are always going to think if it's okay for you to do whatever(that's if you're doing whatever) then it's okay for them and they will always think if she can do it then so can I, men are just selfish like that. I must admit if I was involved with you it would be difficult to not mess up because no matter how much money or power a man has he always wants to think if I'm going to be in a relationship with Ayana, I'm going to be the one to change her and when that doesn't happen, we as men feel threaten. Goodluck!
What's the deal with the contest you mentioned in a previous posting? When will we get the details on how to participate? I'm ready to woe you. Please let us know ASAP
What's up Ayana,
I just discovered this blog and I was pleasantly surprised; I had always assumed that you were intelligent but I didn't expect you to be so open in a blog. It's really nice. And I have seen a lot of your work so I thought you might want to look at some of mine, and no I'm not someone trying to get you to see me naked, I'm a writer. A damn good writer, poetry, short fiction, and one of Ole Miss's premier online reporters. I have two blogs, http://www.rlrwriting.blogspot.com and http://www.raceandcrap.blogspot.com/ and I'd be absolutely honored if you'd read some of my work and tell me what you think. My email address is cubnumber10@gmail.com if you'd rather not leave a comment on the site.
Thanks
Funny. That's the answer to everything "Gurl, just go get that taken care of." No "Sista, have him wear a condom." Not to turn this into a Roe V Wade issue, but it seems that abortion is no longer the last option but the first. My advice? you made your bed now you and, if it is his, he need to sleep in it. C'est la vie. A true friend is the one that tells you that which you least want to hear about yourself.
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